FOR DOLO
There’s a phrase, it’s origin I do not recall -- “man was not meant to live alone”. I’m not so sure about that. From recent observations/conversations that seems to be the case. So many have opted out of the relationship game, they have taken their ball and gone home ALONE. What’s behind that?
Is it age? Do men and women of a certain age opt out because they are of a certain age? These folks are experienced, they seen some things, been some places. They have had a spouse or two or a long term partner who left them or whom they have left. Are the certain age folk going for dolo because they been there and don
Is it ones “ways” that keep them dolo or they like their ways and aren’t interested in dealing with someone elses? You know what I’m talking about, you have a certain way of doing things a certain lifestyle that you live that is suitable for you and you only and you’re just not interested in making any adjustments. Maybe it’s the “ways.”
Maybe it’s the F word. Word -- not bomb, fear. Does one chose to go for dolo because they fear commitment, responsibility, sharing, getting hurt, being disappointed?
It has to be standards. The dolos choose to remain so because they have exacting standards that have yet to be met.
Or is it that the dolos are really the most enlightened. They live in their higher selves. They have a sense of purpose, one that does not involve being entwined with another but a purpose that serves the universe?
I don’t know the answer. I am curious to know what you think. If you’re a dolo, let me know , let us all know why.
Is it age? Do men and women of a certain age opt out because they are of a certain age? These folks are experienced, they seen some things, been some places. They have had a spouse or two or a long term partner who left them or whom they have left. Are the certain age folk going for dolo because they been there and don
Is it ones “ways” that keep them dolo or they like their ways and aren’t interested in dealing with someone elses? You know what I’m talking about, you have a certain way of doing things a certain lifestyle that you live that is suitable for you and you only and you’re just not interested in making any adjustments. Maybe it’s the “ways.”
Maybe it’s the F word. Word -- not bomb, fear. Does one chose to go for dolo because they fear commitment, responsibility, sharing, getting hurt, being disappointed?
It has to be standards. The dolos choose to remain so because they have exacting standards that have yet to be met.
Or is it that the dolos are really the most enlightened. They live in their higher selves. They have a sense of purpose, one that does not involve being entwined with another but a purpose that serves the universe?
I don’t know the answer. I am curious to know what you think. If you’re a dolo, let me know , let us all know why.
